Dont sweat the small stuff…and its all small stuff #87 pg.21


Redefine a “Meaningful Accomplishment”

Sometimes its easy to get carried away with our so-called accomplishments. We spend our lifetimes collecting achievements, earning praise and recognition, and seeking approval-so much so that we lose sight of what is truly meaningful. 

If you ask the average person (as I have done many times), “What is meaningful accomplishment to you?” the typical response will be something like, “Achieving a long-term goal,” “earning lots of money,” “winning a game,” “getting a promotion,” “being the best,” “earning praise,” and so forth. The emphasis is almost always on the external aspects of life-things that happen outside of ourselves. Certainly, there is nothing wrong with these types of accomplishments-they are way of keeping score and improving our circumstances. They are not, however, the most important types of accomplishments if your primary goal is on of happiness and inner peace. Seeing your photograph in the local newspaper may be a nice thing to achieve but isn’t as meaningful as learning to stay centered in the face of adversity. Yet many people would point to their photo in the paper as being a great accomplishment, but wouldn’t necessarily think of “staying centered” as an accomplishment at all. Where are our priorities?

If being peaceful and loving are among your primary goals, then why not redefine your most meaningful accomplishments as being those that support and measure qualities such as kindness and happiness? I think of my most meaningful accomplishments as stemming from inside myself: Was I kind to myself and to others? Did I overreact to a challenge, or was I calm and collected? Am I happy? Did I hold on to anger or was I able to let go and move on? Was I stubborn? Did I forgive? These questions, and others like them, remind us that the true measure of our success comes not from what we do, but from who we are and how much love we have in our hearts.

Rather than being consumed exclusively with external accomplishments, try putting more emphasis on what’s really important. When you redefine what it means to achieve a meaningful accomplishment, it helps you to stay on that path.    


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